So, here we are, in the hospital again. My Father in Law is still on hospice but they are managing his care at the hospital. Things turned very rapidly and they could not keep him comfortable at home any longer.
Basically, this thing is in its final hours, so I won’t be posting for a bit. I do have some things to say, though.
As I walk through hospital halls I see people who are…..alone. They are alone in the morning; They are alone in the afternoon, and they are still alone at night.
There is one room where the patient is not alone, nor will he be. As this is written, there are 11 people in the room; there were 18 but some of the family left. Now it’s just kids and grandkids.
Something else makes this room different. Let me preface this by saying that we are extraordinarily sad; the soon absence of our father will be felt for a while. So, people may be confused when they walk by or into this room and hear the sounds of love and laughter.
Soon, my Father in Law will stop breathing. He will not, however, stop living. At the very moment of his passing he will go to be with his Lord to live in Glory forever. He knows this, and we all know this.
So, even with death imminent in the room, joy has trumped it. Come on in, have a sandwich and some tea, listen to some stories, and have some laughs.
Then, somebody is probably going to tell you just where all the joy comes from.
December 31, 2018 at 20:56
🙏🏻❤️ May you all continue to feel the joy of the Lord and the peace of the Lord! The kind only He can give! God is good ALL of the time! ( this post gave me tears- tears of joy that you and your family can be in this state at this time) what a blessing that many do not get to understand ❤️
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December 31, 2018 at 21:02
Thanks Elizabeth. I would hope some might see and ask.
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December 31, 2018 at 21:02
Amen, me too, Wally, me too 😢❤️
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December 31, 2018 at 21:02
My prayers are with you and let the Lord fill your hearts with all of His peace.
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December 31, 2018 at 21:05
Thanks Sue
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December 31, 2018 at 21:04
Just think of how awesome it will be for him!!! Gives me goosebumps!!!!
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December 31, 2018 at 22:02
Praying for you and your family.
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December 31, 2018 at 22:05
Thanks John
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December 31, 2018 at 22:15
I must say all of you are very strong. May God continue to be with you and help you maintain the peace, holding you together.
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December 31, 2018 at 22:17
Thank you very much
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December 31, 2018 at 22:43
Prayers especially for you and yours during this time, Wally!!
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December 31, 2018 at 23:11
Thanks Lynn
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January 1, 2019 at 00:08
Psalm 116:15 New King James Version (NKJV)
Precious in the sight of the Lord
Is the death of His saints.
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January 1, 2019 at 00:37
Thanks brother
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January 1, 2019 at 00:29
Awwww how beautiful, God bless you and your loved ones for turning a disheartening moment in your lives to joy, love and understanding. Even for us followers to read. My your Father In Law try and have content, happy memorable moments with you before his time 🙏🏽✨
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January 1, 2019 at 00:37
Thanks Rose
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January 1, 2019 at 00:56
Your very welcome
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January 1, 2019 at 01:08
Reblogged this on BibleProphecyWatch.
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January 1, 2019 at 01:28
Beautiful post, Wally. In Jesus there really can be abundant life, even joy, in the midst of death and sadness.
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January 1, 2019 at 02:11
That’s a fact IB.
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January 1, 2019 at 06:05
So sorry you should be starting 2019 with this news. May it improve!
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January 1, 2019 at 06:16
Thanks GP
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January 1, 2019 at 06:06
Happy new year
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January 1, 2019 at 06:17
Thanks Charly
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January 1, 2019 at 07:03
Amen. Thanks Wally
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January 1, 2019 at 08:32
Thanks for reading
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January 1, 2019 at 09:10
You are most welcome dear friend. God bless you and your beloved family members.
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January 1, 2019 at 09:22
So sorry, my friend. End of life is difficult, but for those of us who know that life never ends for the believer, there is great joy. I totally understand what you’re talking about. When my mom passed, the room was full of laughter and stories and those who loved her. Having those final moments together are priceless and we know that we will see them again.
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January 1, 2019 at 09:53
Yes, you do get it. He passed just a bit before 6 this morning
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January 1, 2019 at 10:15
I’m hugging you in prayer. May God strengthen you through this as we all wait for that joyous reunion.
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January 1, 2019 at 10:17
Brother Wally, I’m sorry for your family’s loss, but I know you all take consolation in your father-in-law’s faith in Jesus Christ. What we blessing we have to share that Hope.
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January 1, 2019 at 10:23
Thank you, Tom
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January 1, 2019 at 10:29
Praying the Lord’s arms around each of you.
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January 1, 2019 at 10:47
We continue to pray comfort for you and an easy transition for Harold. Hugs for all.
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January 1, 2019 at 10:58
It went pretty easy Don, about 6 this morning
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January 1, 2019 at 12:02
Be strong my friend.
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January 1, 2019 at 10:56
we pray Wally for your father-n-law’s peace to be able to “go” and we pray for the family’s peace in his leaving…mysteries found in the un-comprehendible…known only to God…all we can do is seek His peace and mercy…of which He will provide. Prayerful hugs my friends.
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January 1, 2019 at 10:59
Thanks Julie. We are home now as he left this morning
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January 1, 2019 at 11:07
He was is at peace while you now pick up those heart piercing pieces — I understand Wally— it is not an easy walk
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January 1, 2019 at 11:10
No, you have been there. Thanks Julie
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January 1, 2019 at 12:38
Praying; what a sad picture to think of people dying alone. Being in Christ and loving one’s family and church changes everything
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January 1, 2019 at 14:15
It’s sad to see, people sick and all alone
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January 1, 2019 at 14:20
Yeah
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January 1, 2019 at 16:02
Pray God’s embrace be felt throughout the process. Vw
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January 1, 2019 at 19:17
Thanks Vw. We do feel it
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January 1, 2019 at 20:16
my prayers n thoughts….vw
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January 1, 2019 at 19:07
Brother, until we are finished with our work we have to wait to go home. But what a joyous thought knowing that there IS a great reunion ahead and there will be no more tears! I long for home, am feeling homesick but cannot stop until our Father says the work He has appointed is done! God bless you and yours my brother, you and family are in Sue’s and my prayers!!!
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January 1, 2019 at 19:14
Thanks brother Roland
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January 1, 2019 at 19:25
I understand the sadness and sorrow, yet we do not mourn as those who have no hope. We understand the passage of life to death, with all of it’s sorrows and cares, and we recognize this is not the end. Those that know Him are with Him when they pass, and they would not want to come back. 🙂 If we know Him, neither will we, when our appointment comes. May you and your family be encouraged, Wally. Tears may endure the night, but Joy comes in the morning. 🙂
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January 1, 2019 at 19:26
Truly said, brother, thanks
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January 1, 2019 at 22:55
God is good all of the time, Wally. I believe He puts our ministry in front of us each day and He seems to have put a lot of ministry in front of you lately. I know it hurts to get fired but God made that decision for you too and I think He’ll put you in a much better place. Sorry about your dad but you are very blessed to have married into such a wonderful family of believers. My dad passed this year and I didn’t cry. It was awful. I don’t hate him, I believe I’m done forgiving him but its been so long since we had any kind of positive connection that there’s nothing there. I think I spent most of my life mourning what I didn’t have and I was past that when he passed. I just hope he is at piece and fully the man God created him to be. Other times, I think maybe something is wrong with me.:0/ Since we were estranged, I wondered how it would be when he died but I didn’t expect numb. It’s awful to mourn a loss but it is a blessing to have the kind of love relationship that is worth mourning. God loves you, Wally. He turns your curses into blessings. It doesn’t get better than that.
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January 2, 2019 at 01:47
Pam I actually agree in that much ministry has been put in front of me lately. It also didn’t take long to figure out that one reason my job was taken was because the family needed me around. Yes, I was hugely blessed to come into this family. I understand what you feel about your own father too. My own daughter and I have recovered a lot of ground in our relationship lately by the way.
Thanks Pam
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January 2, 2019 at 10:16
I’m glad to hear about you and your daughter. Bless you, Wally.
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January 1, 2019 at 23:21
Praise God for joy unspeakable! Prayers for your family!
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January 2, 2019 at 01:41
Thanks Stacey
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January 2, 2019 at 07:19
@Wally
Tough way to start the new year, but it is a reminder of what is important.
Thank you for sharing your sorrows. May our Lord be you and yours.
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January 2, 2019 at 07:21
Thanks Tom
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January 2, 2019 at 10:40
My prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
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January 2, 2019 at 10:41
Thanks James
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January 2, 2019 at 15:57
Wally, I’m so sorry for your loss. You and your family will remain in my prayers. May God comfort you all as you grieve.
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January 2, 2019 at 16:33
Thank you Liz
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January 2, 2019 at 16:18
Wally, thank you for sharing your joy beyond the hospital room so that others know what the life of Christ does within us. We have experienced this time of loss with both parents in which the answer to prayer for mercy was granted. The Lord is truly with us and never leaves us, transitioning us to His glory in His timing. Blessings for you, your wife and family.
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January 2, 2019 at 16:35
Fran thank you. Yes, the prayer for mercy was granted. The pain during the entire illness was minimal and when it came the finish came fast.
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January 2, 2019 at 21:31
Prayers for you and family! May the Lord continue to bless and keep you…so thankful that you know where your father-in-law is and that God is with you! This is our faith…not a period, but a comma. Oh, how glorious seeing Jesus face to face must be!
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January 3, 2019 at 06:43
Yes! And thank you
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January 2, 2019 at 23:07
Love and prayers, brother Wally, as God brings His good and faithful servant back home.
Chris
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January 3, 2019 at 06:43
Thanks much
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January 3, 2019 at 13:03
Great sadness to Great Joy. I understand.:)
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January 3, 2019 at 13:03
That is exactly correct.
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January 3, 2019 at 13:22
:))
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January 4, 2019 at 00:27
Glory and sadness.
Love you and your family, brother.
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January 4, 2019 at 02:10
Thank you, Maria
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January 6, 2019 at 01:27
This is beautiful although sad. May God give your family strength during this time.
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January 6, 2019 at 07:26
Thanks Jessy
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January 6, 2019 at 17:33
A loving tribute and a testimony of faith.
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January 11, 2019 at 07:32
Wally, I’m so sorry I missed seeing this post earlier. I’m lifting you up in prayer today to the God of all comfort.
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January 11, 2019 at 07:36
Thanks, so much Elihu. He did pass; we buried him on the 1st. Now life returns to sort of normal. He died with as much grace as a person could, I believe; and I truly believe the Lord used his death to possible reach some relatives who don’t know Him themselves. They still don’t, but they are certainly thinking and pondering about why my Father in Law was able to go with no fear at all. I was just reading your post with the Beth Moore quote BTW, and may have some thoughts briefly.
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January 11, 2019 at 08:13
I am sorry for your loss, but I joyful for him. I hope the seeds that he planted in the last days will start to take root. I will pray for that also.
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January 11, 2019 at 08:23
Thanks, friend.
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January 11, 2019 at 16:52
I’m so sorry.
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January 11, 2019 at 17:00
Thank you Melissa
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January 11, 2019 at 17:01
By the way, when I click you I don’t get your blog
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January 11, 2019 at 22:42
Hmm that’s weird!
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January 12, 2019 at 04:33
I’d love a link!
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