Matthew 18:15-17
Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother. But if he will not hear thee, then take with thee one or two more, that in the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established. And if he shall neglect to hear them, tell it unto the church: but if he neglect to hear the church, let him be unto thee as an heathen man and a publican.
Last time, we left our post with a couple of questions:
When our brother sins. Against who? Are we talking about brother to brother offenses or just sin in general?
Yes!
If the sin or offense is not against us, is it even our business?
Yes!
Now, let me explain what I mean as best as I can! I want to reference my friend Don Merritt again for a really good explanation of just who the offense in question might be against. Maybe I am being lazy here, but he did a great job of discussing this. I agree totally with his assessment that a case could be made either way about the offense in question. I also agree with his conclusion that it may not really matter just who the offended and/or sinned against party really is. Any sin on the part of our brethren may harm us personally, may harm another of the brethren, or may be harmful to the Kingdom. They are all certainly grievous and wounding to God, aren’t they?
Is our brother’s sin really any of our business? Isn’t that really between him or her and God? I have to vote yes on both of those questions. Of course Jesus is our ultimate judge, and we are told not to judge any one. We are not to pronounce judgment on another person. We don’t know any person’s heart, nor can we be in the business of telling them if they are right with God or not. We can go to Galatians 5 and read all about the works of the flesh and the fruit of the spirit. The only reason I bring that up is the phrase I have heard, “We aren’t to judge, but we can be fruit inspectors.”
That really doesn’t answer why though, now does it? Why is the sin of our brother’s and sister’s really any of our business?
Our sinning brother or sister may be harming themselves. We are our brother’s keeper. That means as brothers and sisters of a person, we have a responsibility to help them keep themselves out of harm’s way. Many behaviors which we would classify as sin, are in fact harmful physically and/or emotionally to the person committing them. We would certainly be withing bounds to help them out of that situation.
Our sinning brother or sister may be harming US! We are, as The Bible teaches, to forgive even the believer who sins directly against us. Period. That doesn’t mean we have to expose ourselves to their offense or even let them continue in that offense. The gossiper is a good example. If our brother or sister is gossiping about us, the attempt to make this offense stop is certainly within bounds.
Our sinning brother or sister may be harming another. The cheating businessman, or the man abusing his wife may not be harming himself or us, but he is certainly harming others and correcting them on this behavior is certainly withing bounds.
Finally, our sinning brother or sister may be harming the the Kingdom, and the witness of the Gospel of Jesus Christ. There is a reason so many think our churches are full of hypocrites; sometimes they are. It’s simply not good for the testimony of our churches for members to come to church on Sunday morning and act like an angel, then for the rest of the week act like the devil himself. Dealing with church members who engage in open and notorious sin is certainly within bounds.
Great! We have concluded here that, yes, sin among the brethren is not just their business, but likely OUR business. Now what? We run out and talk about them amongst ourselves, then toss them out on the street, right?
Well, no, not really.
May 9, 2017 at 08:20
Anxious to see how this plays out 😀
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May 9, 2017 at 08:28
🙂
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May 9, 2017 at 08:48
Well done,Wally. 🙂
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May 9, 2017 at 09:16
Thanks IB.I see you have been writing about Grace a lot too…I am coming over soon I promise!
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May 9, 2017 at 11:45
Wally, good points on how the spiritual state of different parts of the body affect the whole body.
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May 9, 2017 at 11:52
Thanks for the feedback, Tom. This study has made me nervous honestly, as some totally disagree with this teaching.
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May 9, 2017 at 13:04
I really love the points you raise here! Especially that Christians need to be “fruit inspectors.” By the way, I also nominated you for the Mystery Blogger Award. You can check it out in my post tomorrow morning!
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May 9, 2017 at 13:13
Thanks Emily for thinking of me. I will check it out. I have trouble participating in those things usually due to time, but I will try! Thanks for the feedback. The fruit inspector thing I got from my wife LOL.
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May 9, 2017 at 13:19
No worries! I don’t always do them either haha. Just know that I appreciate you!
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May 9, 2017 at 13:51
Thank you Emily, you have officially made my day.
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May 10, 2017 at 23:40
Can’t wait for the story of restoration
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